The PeerRx Blog
Explore below for past buddy check newsletters and other inspiration for checking in with your partner.
Our Opportunity to Promote Healing
“When we push aside normal emotions to embrace false positivity, we lose our capacity to develop skills to deal with the world as it is, not as we wish it to be.” Susan David, PhD (Emotional Agility)
Perhaps This Time We’ll Really Open Up?
“I define vulnerability as uncertainty, risk, and emotional exposure …. When you shut down vulnerability you shut down opportunity.” Brene Brown
It’s Recovery Time!
“We live in a world that celebrates work and activity, ignores renewal and recovery, and fails to recognize that both are necessary for sustained high performance.” Jim Loehr, PhD
We All Need a “Soul Friend” Colleague
“Friendship is always an act of recognition …. If you realize how vital to your whole spirit — and being and character and mind and health — friendship actually is, you will take time for it.” John O’Donohue
Physician, Please Stop Trying to “Heal Thyself”
“A minor operation is one that is done on someone else.” Richard Selzer, MD
The Importance of the Rest of the Story
“And now you know … the rest of the story.” Paul Harvey, legendary radio personality
It’s a Wonder-Full Life
“Always be on the lookout for the presence of wonder.” EB White, author of “Charlotte’s Web”
I Want to Take More Call
“You just call on me …. when you need a hand. We all need somebody to lean on.” Bill Withers
Being Admitted to the “I See You”
“The ultimate touchstone of friendship … is witness.” David Whyte
Time to be Contagious!
“Emotions are contagious. We’ve all known this experientially.” Daniel Goleman, PhD (expert on Emotional and Social Intelligence)
Time to Remove Your Mask?
“Wearing a mask wears you out. Faking it is fatiguing.” – Rick Warren
Getting It Right the First Time
“One year from now, what will be the story you tell …?” Bumper Sticker
Recharging Your Pause! Button
“Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” Viktor Frankl, MD
Time to Show Up More Fully …
“Courage starts with showing up and letting ourselves be seen …. Because true belonging only happens when we present our authentic, imperfect selves to the world.” Brene Brown (The Gifts of Imperfection).
No One Should Care Alone …
“Why is it important to swim with a buddy?” Our local YMCA swim instructor
Don’t Run From Your Shadow …
“That which we do not bring to consciousness appears in our lives as fate.” Carl Jung, MD
Be the Light You Are …
“For there is always light, if only we're brave enough to see it. If only we're brave enough to be it.” Amanda Gorman, National Youth Poet Laureate
Tell ‘Em About the Dream
“ … so even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream.” - Martin Luther King, Jr.